Saturday, July 30, 2011

if he's really your man, you wldn't need to fight for him

I'll keep this short cos I wasn't really going to blog in a while. But this is something that i've been hearing over and over again, and it has def given me reason to pause and think.

girls fighting for their man. as in, fighting other girls for their man. as in, 'hey b**, thats my man so get your hands off him' etc etc.

It really makes me lol. My stance is simple:

If he is really yours, then you wldn't have to fight for him.

I personally feel that (and maybe i'm just being naive and what not) if you have a guy that loves you and etc - you wouldnt even have to worry about chasing girls off of him. Its not the woman's job to 'defend' her man from other girls. That should be a non-issue. His eyes should be 100% set on her - so that even if Alicia Keys or Catherine Zeta Jones or Scarlett Johanssen type chic shows up, she still would NOT have to fight to keep him.

If you're at the point where you're fighting to keep you man - you already lost him. Sooner or later, he'll peace out. You can't force love.

And as a side - why do girls today settle for less?
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6 comments:

  1. NaijaScorpioJuly 31, 2011 at 10:55 PM

    True that. You won't have to fight for him if he's yours but some girls are so simple and that's all they are about. Part of it is growing up too and acquiring self-worth and knowledge but unfortunately not everyone grows up.

    With that being said, life is not always white and black.

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  2. UnveilinggoldAugust 1, 2011 at 4:27 AM

    I second sting's comment...I dont understand the part of fighting for ur man, suppose na ur husband i for say..oh well..

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  3. okonyahouseboyAugust 1, 2011 at 8:55 PM

    you're right sting - it was a spur of the moment post. Most things aren't black and white...but I still feel that if you have to 'fight' to keep your man, then he doesn't respect enough as a woman.

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  4. R.OneAugust 1, 2011 at 9:28 PM

    "If you're at the point where you're fighting to keep you man - you already lost him. Sooner or later, he'll peace out. You can't force love."

    Hear!! Hear!!

    ...some type of 'fight' is necessary sometimes but this is not about other women which is what you're talking about so i won't get into it :D

    Thanks for stopping by mine...

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  5. Ope AdebayoAugust 2, 2011 at 7:30 AM

    So true!

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  6. AseniSeptember 15, 2011 at 9:12 PM

    I love this post!

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