she's just 22. or 23? not sure. cute as cute can be.
two little babies. or is it three? no i'm sure its two. the oldest is almost 2 years old. the youngest a couple months.
yes you guessed it. unprotected sex. of course they were madly in love with eachother. of course they knew it wasnt going to happen - it always happened to everyone else.
but the unthinkable happened. pregnancy test positive. this was 2 years ago.
when i heard they were getting married - or did I hear after the got married? - i wondered. but - we went to a christian school right? honor code and all? no sex before marriage? ha! honor what? every weekend at a different hotel, giving their honor to each other.
so they hung head in shame, didnt tell anyone, got married quick. their love was tested. their love is still being tested. its not easy. being thrust to fatherhood or motherhood at such a young age. maybe getting pregnant is the ultimate test of 'oh i love you baby'. funny how not so cute she looks anymore. funny how disinterested the relationship is now. funny how all you see are their flaws and oh my god what was i thinking?
now he's never home. well hardly home. too busy working. and when he's home, he's too busy working. to talk. to hang out. hell, to even have sex anymore. isnt that the reason why they're in this mess after all? i mean c'mon! i'm your wife dammit. now i'm lonely. 2 babies all by myself.
i'm just 22. i'm not supposed to be feeling like an old woman at this age. i'm supposed to be going out and having fun and enjoying life. i'm not supposed to be stuck home like this.
the decisions we make today, we live with them tomorrow.
anyways, be careful who you talk with, or what you say while you're drunk.
she had a crush on me, i found out. has always had a crush on me from back in college. we hardly talked. i thought she was out of my league. No, i knew she was out of my league lol. plus she was dating my really good friend. what a lucky chap we all thought. snagged her while she was a freshman. really smart move - i may need to pull that one someday. so ya i did not even think of things like that all. i mean she liked me?
she has a crush on me. still does. never went away. a lil bit too much to drink made it slip. i was surprised. i am surprised. but uhm wait really. you have a happy family, facebook said so! beautiful beautiful babies, very very cute husband.
things are never what they seem.
beautiful babies, cute couple. no, i'm not happy. we dont do things anymore together. we never talk, only put on an appearance. i dont think i ever stopped liking you. i want you. NOW.
wait hooooooooooooold up missus. maybe its bed time - you dont want to be saying this and I dont want to be hearing this.
i know its wrong, but its the truth. ive never gotten over you. right from college - even when i was with my bf. till now. its wrong, i know but its the truth.
things are never what they seem. i am not a home wrecker - well i take that back - i have wrecked a non-married couple's relationship to be honest (with good reason honest lol) but i'm not a marriage wrecker. i think you're cute, always have. i'm pretty sure 70% of guys back then were tripping. i'm pretty sure 70% of guys right now are still tripping. i'd put myself in the former category. yes you're cute and all but I wont take advantage of you. i cant do this to you - our friend your husband - your babies - your marriage. hell no.
i wont lie - it was definitely good to know - albeit 4 years later. but i can say this with complete certainty - even though i thought you were cute then and you had a crush on me, and we had both found out - i probably wldnt still be with you. there's more to a r/ship than just looks. no, you are a fabulous person - dont get me wrong. but...idk. no. i cant act on every crush. do you?
damn, maybe this is why i am so single. too picky. for ever alone? i shld just pick one and settle down like everyone else.
lol hell no. good things come to those who wait. or so i keep telling myself. not so convincing now eh? all the good girls are either...well...knocked up...or taken. so who's left?
bleh.
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lol no spell check or anything so forgive typos. that was too serious. let me tone it down a notch. i'll leave you with one of my fav pictures on the internet lol ladies please dont do this to your man
his wife is hitting him?!!!!!oh no!
ReplyDeleteLMAO. Bless him.
ReplyDeleteROTFL @ the picture. coughs at the married women post....i like the title of your blog o...haha
ReplyDeletelol. i guess the story was a tad confusing.
ReplyDeletebasically, she got married to my friend at 20 years old cos she got pregnant for him.
but i just learnt (thanks to alcohol) that she's always had a crush on me and still does lol. fine babe again too! lol
The story wasn't confusing. Stop insulting ur intelligent readers, u this boy. What are u doing talking to a married woman while she's under the influence?
ReplyDeletePoor girl. I guess she's learning the hard way. Facebook is an illusion. That's one of the many reasons why i hate it. As is it, i may never permanently go back there.
Abeg remove this ur word verification thingy. Why are u giving pple work because they want to comment on ur blog. Better start behaving urself o.
lol, poor guy! first time here, you wrote that? you're pretty talented:)
ReplyDeleteBlessings.....
ReplyDeleteIt is always wise to know ones worth, so your are single, big deal, it is best to choose the whole bread than settle for crumbs.
RECIPE (Ital rice & peas)
Rice
Peas (gongo peas) you can use another peas
onions
garlic
parsley
cumin
chilli peppers
bay leaf(3)
cinnamon (just a pinch)
rosemary
thyme
(optional - carrots)
(optional - salt)
(optional - sugar)
browning
Hot water
DIRECTIONS...(traditional way/with sugar & oil)
put on a pot of water to boil you will use this to cook the rice because using cold water will stop the cooking process.
1. Wash rice and drain out water and set aside until your pot is ready
2. put pot on the stove under high heat
3. Add 4 tablespoon of oil (let oil hot)
4. Add 4 tablespoon of sugar in the old and let it brown (please be careful because this can burn if it gets on your skin). make sure you watch it brown because it browns quickly do not let it get black or it will taste bitter.
5. Once it brown add rice slowly and stir. (do not drop in because the sugar and oil will splatter and burn you).
6. Lower your heat to medium and cover the put for a few minutes for the color to take.
7. Open the pot and add peas
8. Add hot water
9. Add all your herbs and spices
10. Stir
11. Cover and let it slow cook checking it periodically. If the water reduces before the rice is cooked then add more hot water. Taste your rice to see if it is cooked, but not too soft or it well get mushy.
12. When your rice and peas is cooked take it off the heated burner because the heat will continue to cook the rice.
DIRECTIONS (NEW VERSION/WITH BROWNING)
put on a pot of water to boil you will use this to cook the rice because using cold water will stop the cooking process.
1. Wash rice and drain out water and set aside until your pot is ready
2. Add hot water in the pot you are cooking the rice and peas in.
5. Add browning
6. Add rice
7. Add peas
8. Add herbs and spices
10. Stir
11. Cover and lower stove to medium
12. let it slow cook checking it periodically. If the water reduces before the rice is cooked then add more hot water. Taste your rice to see if it is cooked, but not too soft or it well get mushy.
12. When your rice and peas is cooked take it off the heated burner because the heat will continue to cook the rice.
Please make sure you taste to ensure you have added just enough spices.
Good luck.
You're keeping a drunk married woman company? You'd better watch it b4 she claims u're responsible for the next pregnancy!
ReplyDeleteAnd ur blog title...
Hmmm, this story just keeps repeating itself.
ReplyDeleteNot a good idea to be part of all that drama.